Abigail Van Buren
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Dear Abby: Wife checks out ‘to find herself’
She says she doesn't want a divorce; she just needs time and space to work on herself, but she also wants to work on our marriage. She doesn't want to...
Dear Abby: Copycat neighbors out to compete
Six months ago, we installed a unique garage door, unlike anything in the neighborhood. Abby, within three months she installed the exact same one!
Dear Abby: Feeling replaced by dad’s new family
I feel entirely replaced by his new family. Rather than being a present father and grandfather, he has nearly disappeared.
Dear Abby: Wedding invites go out – but not for Mom
My fiance and I agree we don't want her there because of how she has treated not only me, but him as well. We sent out the invitations and invited...
Dear Abby: Emotional vampire leaves pal drained
I can put the phone down and go make a cup of tea, and she'll still be talking when I get back.
Dear Abby: Freeloading guests overwhelm host
When he stays at our place, we fix all the meals and he uses our washer, dryer and detergent for several loads of laundry each time.
Dear Abby: Loves his wife, but longs for ex
Every time my wife and I have a disagreement, I start thinking about my ex and what life would've been like if I had stayed with her. I find myself...
Dear Abby: Don’t want my kids near family chaos
I grew up in a big lower-class family in which there has always been drama, fights, gossip, etc. I made a vow to myself that when I had my own...
Dear Abby: Snubbed by co-worker friend group
Three years ago, I learned they have a group chat with two of the other women and have gotten together outside of work and didn't include me.
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Dear Abby: Spouse’s pal returns to threaten marriage
Now that Valerie has resurfaced, contacting only my spouse and addressing cards only to my spouse, it's clear the "game is on" once again.